lent and sex

gazele: so you keepin lent
gazele: aaj ash wednessday hian na
rocksea: my lent is to abstain from bad deeds, bad thoughts
gazele: oh…..
gazele: that is toughest
rocksea:
rocksea: christ had said no need to take lent when hez with us
rocksea: how abt that
gazele: and when you say bad deeds and thoughts what exactly do you mean
gazele: did he say that. where is that written
rocksea: deeds n thoughts which can be harmful to life around
rocksea: wherez that written? lemme find out
rocksea: somewhere when he talked to his disciples
rocksea: may be after when he went to the hill with 2 of them, peter and
gazele: oh so you are not refraining yourself from sexual acts (what so ever) and thougths  ld
rocksea: mark 2:18-19
gazele: evede poyee
gazele: ende kartawe
rocksea: Mr 2:18 And the disciples of John and of the Pharisees used to FAST: and they come and say unto him, Why do the disciples of John and of the Pharisees FAST, but thy disciples FAST not? Mr 2:19 And Jesus said unto them, Can the children of the bridechamber FAST, while the bridegroom is with them? as long as they have the bridegroom with them, they cannot FAST.
gazele: ningal ada noka poya arrun no
rocksea: ada??
rocksea: how do u say sexual acts are bad
gazele: i don’t say. but masturbation is considered sin
rocksea: by whom
rocksea: not for me
gazele: well not for me either
rocksea: those are sins which some bring up to keep their office
rocksea: yesterday night i masturbated.. ohhhh
gazele: hahah
gazele: so why tell me??
gazele: yesterday night i had sex
gazele: hahahaha
rocksea:
gazele: and what else
rocksea: what else
rocksea: so whatz ur lent on>?
gazele: nothing..
gazele: i don’t follow.
rocksea: ok
gazele: only yesterday we had 4 bacardi’s and my freezer is stocked for the entire week
rocksea: ohhh
rocksea: haha
rocksea: so enjoying
gazele: actually kim is following so he did everything possible llast night;A)
gazele:
rocksea:
rocksea: do u mean yo people are avoiding sex too???
rocksea:
gazele: well he would
gazele: but then i gave him a concesson
gazele: that whenever i feel like. he would do it
gazele: adn you know other playfull stuff
gazele: 45 days. long too time maan
rocksea:
rocksea: so you’ll do it anyways
gazele: well i don’t want sexual tensions building up"
rocksea: god gave you all those things to do it. so if you dont utilize it he’ll be unhappy
rocksea: ya
gazele: hahaaahaahahha
rocksea: am not joking
gazele: well you do patronize god too much
rocksea: people say in life like "i have left things to god, let him do.." and they dont do things what they are supposed to do. foolish
rocksea: i dont patronize anyone
gazele: hmmn
rocksea: hey i will take this lent part and put in my blog
rocksea: names changed
rocksea:
rocksea: nice theme

17 Responses

  1. tammy says:

    @rocksea:
    Well first i would say , nice one..:)

    May it be FASTing or indulging, I feel in today’s world there are no Do’s and Don’t.
    It’s that you get convinced by what you actually wanna do, and you have atleast one reason for not doing what you don’t want to.
    Even i do fast ,but you know thnigs change with time and one tries to convince oneself.

    anyways it was nice reading this one.

  2. Faisal says:

    I am convinced. Thanks for your clarification.

  3. rocksea says:

    i dont personally go for fasting though most of the religions including christianity have several days of fasting as part of the religion. in christianity, it is more liberal compared to islam.

    oh here, i am not talking about pre-marital sex. just pointing out the priorities one may give during a lent season. some people avoid taking non-veg, some people avoid certain meals, some people avoid sex, and some people think it is more important to keep your mind and actions clear than the former things. got it? 🙂

    then again, one of the major reasons of a lent season is to cleanse your mind and make you pure at heart. so will avoiding sex just during this time do any good to you or anyone as a person? should sex be considered as a sin to be avoided or instead, considered as an essential factor of married life?

  4. Faisal says:

    Do you also subscribe to the idea of Fasting? I did not know that Roxy. Fasting is considered a great thing in Islam and I have been fasting ever since I can remember. I am a bit confused about your idea on sex as the conversation published here seems really abstract. I might sound primitive, but I still belive in the idea of after-marriage sex. Whats your take on that?

  5. Vinu says:

    Yes Roxy..Will do tht…

  6. g says:

    Happy fasting..!
    I’ve replied to ur comments on ma blog.. drop by for a looksie when u have the time
    love
    g

  7. rocksea says:

    kalesh, 🙂

    lol. Theresa, that was a nice comment. it is human to please oneself. 95% of guys and i donno how many gals (haha cuz i shud say less sexual awareness, societal notions), are being human, so it is natural. may be the ways are different. anyways letz not go astray.

    abt love, am impressed by your perseverance. let us hope you’ve someone as understanding on the otherside too. for me, though am in a long distance, sarah is so understanding. there are short moments when i felt left out but she comes running to mend it 🙂 Do well in your exams!

  8. Theresa says:

    I never do such as traditions in Ask Wednesday and stuff… but I believe in God and I never had sex ever before… but I’m also into those sexual stuff a bit. Not really because I want to pleasure myself and that I’m a sex maniac. It’s just that I’m only human and I can’t help myself. lol I’m talking weird. x_X Don’t get me wrong. I don’t masturbate or the likes.

    Anyways, thanks for ideas on how to make my relationship better than now. I e-mail him a lot especially when we don’t get to talk much… but I guess he’s too busy and tired to even reply… but atleast I know he reads it. As for the snailmail, I guess I would really be considering to give it a try. After my exams of course. ^^ I’m sure any guy would appreciate as much effort as I already have had put in our relationship.

  9. rocksea says:

    pidiyana, let us take it beyond the lent. and let it not be for lent but for life.

    wish you all the happiness and peace

  10. pidiyana says:

    Lol!!

    Lent began with smearing of ashes on my forehead. Lent began with the abstenance from hurtful deeds. Lent began with the cleansing of sad thoughts from my heart. Lent began with the promise of peace by the end of it.

  11. rocksea says:

    silverine, we get carefully scrutinized chicken here in japan 😉

    pram, yokoso (welcome) 🙂

  12. pram says:

    Very entertaining – and enlightening – post. And a great blog all around. Will come around and check out your other Malgudi Days and Mile Sur links some time later.

    Best.

  13. silverine says:

    No thanks !!!

    Bon Apetit to both of you !! Don’t catch the bird flu :))

  14. rocksea says:

    silverine.. oh when i was a child (holy communion days) i used to take lent and everyone including my parents tried to break it as i was not eating anything haha.

    anyways later it was mummy who gave me the idea that it is better to refrain from bad deeds (lies, anger etc and not of course murder and like) than refrain from some food.

    am having a grand dinner today. fish curry, egg roast with thickened gravy and chicken chicken fried and spicy aroma filling the nostrils.. care to join me n sarah??

  15. silverine says:

    p.s. I am definitely giving up Chicken for Lent :))

    p.p.s so are the other million Indian non vegetarians even though they dont observe Lent ha ha

  16. silverine says:

    I am a vegetarian teetotaller from today 🙁
    God help me!!

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